Wednesday, October 19, 2005
converse I was upset awhile ago because i just found out that inc. nga kmi s research (balik ako ng mla. tom. to revise)pero after cooling down for 3hrs. or more i got over it na, i actually thought of posting something bout it pra mga kpg project eh sa kapatid ko napunta..wahehe..Pero and stupid nya nmn kc imagine u've been doing the whole thing for 1 sem. then nung 3 weeks left na lng sa sem bglang "ay. may kamuka pla kyo"..and very unprofessional..when you set an appointment u're supposed to respect that.. i feel so ashamed na sa USTe mo ata nakuha ang M.A mo..
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"Kamusta naman ang girlfriend/boyfriend mo?"
"Mabait naman siya"
I had a discussion w/ some of my friends regarding this..I told my friends that everyone is innately good..That every single person has some kindness in him/her..My friend replied something like: "Ang korni mo nmn"But still, I stand by belief..it's just the way i see a person..Being good is something you see or perceive from an individual..Furthermore, each one of us has his own definition of kindness..It is solely based on how we see a person..
Regarding the above conversation; It's not enough to say that you love a person because he/she is good..Of course the person is goodBECAUSE YOU LOVE THE PERSON..How will you love someone who isn't nice? I know i may sound k.j as my friend added but it's the truth..a person is kind to you because he likes you..but im not simply talking about liking "as in love, etc" but liking as a friend ora colleague..We are nice because it's our nature..A person you met at the jeepney could be "mataray" but still she could actuallybe nice once you get to know her or if you would inquire her friends about it..As one song says "A man could kill but still be the sweetest..."
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I had a recent conversation with a friend regarding relationships..I would say we were both enlightened or we learned somethingwith is actually idealistic but makes sense..We (i don't know if this should be the right pronoun) realized that it is actually wrong to setstandards..to look for your "ideal mate"..For such person doesn't exist, we see a person as the ideal mate that we've been looking for butif you would look a lot deeper you have actually made this person fit into your standards..
Let's put it this way..An ideal relationship doesn't exist or isn't important..What's important is meeting that one person who is not so perfectand not your ideal mate..But is willing to be with you even if you are not perfect yourself..Someone who is willing to grow and learn with you..Willing to get hurt with/by youAndsomeone who isn't ideal but is willing to build or start an ideal relationship w/ you..
No one is omniscient, omnipresent or omnipotent..in our world to say the least..Stupid_Doug sitting... waiting... at 10/19/2005 03:48:00 PM | 0 comments
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